Synopsis Hear Me

This film tells the story of Yang Yang and her sister, Xiao Peng. Because it has been deaf since childhood, then both sisters using sign language in communication.

Xiao Peng had ideals - ideals participate in the Olympics someday. So he was very keen to practice and become a member in the group pool for the disabled. While Yang Yang's brother, every day work to support them both, a street performer in one of the streets of Taipei.


Tian Kuo, a young man who always deliver the lunchbox to the pool where Xiao Peng practice, very good relations both admire these sisters. And slowly - land he was more like Yang Yang.

Aware that among those very likely a misunderstanding due to communication problems, Tian Kuo was very diligent in practicing sign language, and trying to understand the Yang Yang and his life.

I highly recommend this movie. Throughout the movie a few times lol because look at the antics of a very loving Kuo Tian Yang Yang and hope feeling unrequited ... or when Tian Kuo is with his parents, he2. But there are moments - when moving, such as Yang Yang and his brother quarreled.

And without good acting, this movie certainly will seem flat. Both Eddie Peng Tian Kuo who plays, as well as Ivy Chen and Michelle Chen as a brother and sister, all three act well. Certainly not easy to demonstrate sign language, showing expression in accordance with the conditions.

One more thing worth diacungin thumb, director Fen Fen Cheng managed to make a romantic movie without having to enter the scene - sex scenes or vulgar. The shooting pretty sight, and the soundtrack fits very well. No wonder that this film one of the best-selling movie in 2009 in Taiwan yesterday. Hopefully this film also screened in global

Sinopsis Hear Me

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Importance of Self Motivation

"Speaking of self-motivation, why after attending a motivational seminar, motivation does not last long?" In another article I have discussed that motivation can indeed be reduced. Motivation thought it permanent, is the first mistake. The second reason is that we will lose motivation if we only expect motivation from the outside. Because the strongest motivation comes from yourself.

And what about the role of motivation from the outside? Although self-motivation is important, it does not mean the motivation from the outside is not important. Motivation comes from outside can help find and raise your self-motivation. A good motivator would be to build yourself into someone who is able to find and generate self-motivation is the motivation.
Self Motivation Factors

In many NLP books mentioned that there are only two factors of self-motivation is to pursue pleasure and avoid suffering or pain. But if I kerucutkan again, there is only one motivation factor, which is love. The greater our love, the greater the motivation to rise.

See, many people who until desperate suicide because of broken love. This illustrates that love has the power to move us, even for things that are bad and do not make sense. Maybe you have a lot of listening to stories of love trash, anything done "for love". Love is the source of self-motivation.

Joe Vitale realize the power of love as the main motivator after he saw the movie 50 First Dates (2004) (50 First Date) which describes the efforts of a man who every day try to make seroang woman fall in love with him. This business is conducted every day, because the girl idol have memory that can recall only 1 day. This is just one of the many love stories on film.

You can harness the power of love is to gain self-motivation. Of course, not limited to a love for the opposite sex, but love other things as well. When you love your job, you will have enough motivation at work. Look pemasin football, in the midst of a tight schedule, they still enjoy playing on the field, because they love the profession as pesebak ball.
Most Powerful Self Motivation

However, there is love the strongest. When you do not have this love, really you've wasted your life. This is the greatest love, which motivates the jihadists on the battlefield. Not afraid to die, do not fear pain, not afraid of anything, for the sake of this love. This love is nothing else, love to God. Love to God, is an essential love that became the most powerful source of self motivation.

Because the work is part of worship. Likewise, businesses are part of worship. And, of worship are as our love for God, then work and our business also is a manifestation of our love for God. Supposedly, when we work and business, we will have a high motivation.

Have?

Let us pancangkan our intention that our businesses to work and worship. Let us fertilizer our consciousness, that business and our work is one manifestation of our love for God.

Is there a feeling our love for God? If it feels less, then our faith must be increased again. For the love of God only owned by those who believe.

As for those who believe very highly of his love for God. (Surat al-Baqara: 165).

Thus, self-motivation can be developed to increase faith in God continually. God's Love to the higher, self-motivated even higher.
The days will be lived with full spirit

No other form of proof of our love to God apart from worship. Ibadahlah demanded by God. As proof, if we love Him then we'll do what is asked by his beloved.

Moreover, all the life we ​​have to in order to worship. All our activity is worship. This means that all the gestures we have is a form of love to God.

* First, intend that what we do is for the sake of God that we love.
* Second, do something with the demands of our activity syar'i, whether it is worship or ghair maghdoh maghdoh, both existing guidance. This means that as a form of love of God we will continue to learn how to practice the correct way.
* And that our spirit we will do it. Usually, we'll do something with passion, courage, and continuous for the sake of his beloved.

But Love Affair Hearts

Love is the affairs of the heart. Love is not forced. Is it true? Of course there is truth. However, by nature, humans are creatures who love God. The human nature is to love God.

But in reality, love of God can dibelokan. We can see how in love with the opposite sex can succumb to the love of God. The proof is that they are willing to do these things sin for his love to girlfriend. Love to the property can defeat our love to God. The proof is a lot of people who want to do business is haram for his love to treasure.

Syaithan by exploiting the passions make what we love other than God to be so beautiful. As if there is no love is more important than "someone" idol of his heart. Whatever it is willing to do for his love.

And thus have We made for every prophet an enemy, namely the demons (of type) human and (of species) jin, sebahagian They will whisper to the other beautiful words to deceive-beautiful (man). If thy Lord willed, they do not do it, then leave them and what they have to invent. (Surat al-An'am: 112)

Love affairs of the heart is, but we can cleanse our hearts so that we have a real love, in love with the place. Love to the opposite sex, wealth, family, and others may as your self-motivation, which is important not to defeat your love to God as the main self-motivation.

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Good man religion

That night, he has made a historic decision in his life. I myself have witnessed a young man who left wonderful time Saturday night, to come spend time with us in a collection. He is aware of the decision and know that the risks he must separate from the previous clusters to set a better and eternal. A collection in which we smiled at each other and beruluk greetings. A collection in which we invite each other to believe and do good deeds. A collection that makes a person metamorphoses into a righteous believer. A collection in which the believer must become a butterfly and distributing charm of kindness amid the people. A collection of his choice it is Halaqah Islam.

That night at a small mosque, just not far behind him stands a magnificent shopping center in the city of Tangerang. For a young man, the night was very tempting. Saturday night with the rituals of modern ignorance, held in the shopping center. Plus the hustle and bustle of the vehicle in which the young people who are not mahramnya berboncengan each other's arms. Pretty girls with toddler clothes back and forth alongside a road. Quite often pass in front of our small prayer house. But that's all, not at all discourage our footsteps to the mosque. Not at all tempted him to join clusters that just kill time and smearing himself with the immoral.

He sat with us in the loop. Introduce herself. And he expressed his intent and purpose, "I want to move!". That's it. Short, concise and clear. The words were later to be signaling that he should turn into a better person with a commitment to Islam. And it proved in the following days he became a person who always come on time in our collection and he never comes without reason syar'i. That suggests a steely determination to change

I still remember, when he first read the Qur'an. Stammered and slightly misspelled. But not the least cripple his determination to keep learning. I also still remember when he fought back to not smoking in front of us because he was embarrassed to see us no one was smoking. One day he told me that he has a girlfriend, but she did not dare to take the decision to get married or end the illicit relationship.

And the days go on. He became the first man. First present in Halaqah. The first move in any proselytizing agendas. First a mitigating hands among us who experience hardship. And in the days running that he had begun to read the Qur'an fluently. Even hafalannya began to grow. And he also told, that the habit of hanging out with us to make it accustomed to not smoking. Slowly he finally quit smoking. With increasing knowledge and faith, without any need of us call it, he ended his illicit relationship with her boyfriend.

Today, as I write this article, has three years from that historic night, he was happy to have found his sweetheart. A sister Shalihah alongside him at the altar. Akhwat that he first met a month ago through a process ta'aruf (introduction) through murrabi (supervisor) us. He has ended his bachelor. And today he asked us to collect the orphans, and invited him on the Day of her marriage. Invited to eat together and given compensation. Subhanallah. On her wedding day she still wanted to give the best to note in his life.

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In religious life, we may often ask, such as whether religion was a good person? Are people pretty much his religious knowledge? Are people being hard on religion? So easy to forbid something?

Perhaps we often see people who have enough religious knowledge. They may well explain the various arguments could even argue with the eloquent, but they do not really feel the religion as an impetus to act and guidance in doing. Religion was not inspiring in their lives. In this case, religion is similar to our knowledge of biology or chemistry, even though religion still influences the lives of people who know the science, as low as any. Often they do not have the pride of his religion. Often just feeling embarrassed when talking to appeal based on religion. As a result, religion seemed to lose its relevance to our lives now, though in fact what happens is we never try to understand the will of the religion of our daily lives.

Or in other places, we are also not rare to see people who are experiencing the euphoria of religion. They are very high spirited run a religion that not infrequently their attitude excessive. In general, their religious knowledge is still superficial. That is why they often act very reactive without trying to tabayyun 'confirmation' when encountered dissent to the small questions that their teachers would receive it with the most senior gracefully.

Their attitude is reactive and looking spirit, we are often misunderstood as militancy, but the euphoria that is not well controlled actually vulnerable to the futur (interrupted in the middle of the road) that would damage the militancy. People who experienced the euphoria often seem more vibrant, more bells and whistles, and louder reaction against anything that contradicts with what is believed. Excessive attitude was precisely in turn causes them easy to lose spirit.

Consider some of the advice of the Prophet. following;

"Any charity that is the spirit and the weak. Any person who at the time he remained in Sunnahku weakness (cue) then he has been lucky. However, those who switch to other than that meant he had been hurt. "(Narrated by Ahmad)

Messenger of Allah. also been reminded Abdullah bin Amr bin Ash ra, "O Abdullah, do not be like the so and so. Before this, she is awake at night (Prayer Tahajjud), but then he left at all. "(Narrated by Bukhari)

Then as if his religion was a good person? Beginning of the story before, about a friend, might be an example of a good religion. Just look at Al-Qura'an talk about them;

"And ye haste to the forgiveness of your Lord and for Paradise as wide as heaven and earth, prepared for those who fear Allah, (that) those who spend (freely), whether in prosperity or in adversity, and those who restrain anger and mema'afkan (wrong) people. Allah loves those who do good. And (also) those who, when working on indecency or wronged themselves, they would remember God, then beg forgiveness of their sins and who else who can forgive sin apart from God? and they did not pursue kejinya act that, while they know. They reward is forgiveness from their Lord, and Gardens underneath which rivers flow, while they abide therein; and That's the best to reward those who do good. "(Surah Ali-Imran [3]: 133-136 )

Look, if the Qur'an speak of good faith that they were people who pretty much science? Or people who are good at arguing? Or that hard in a religion and not make it easier? Whereas the Prophet. warns us to facilitate the religious and not difficult. Accidentally in the verse I thicken a few words, to show their characteristics in the Qur'an.

They may have a lot to have science or religion can be read the Qur'an it is very difficult. However, there are likening them, whether they have a lot of knowledge and the laity. The awareness that we are very weak and always open opportunities to make a mistake making them easy to accept tausiyah counsel and advice even from the younger. Sometimes indeed they are still far from adequate religious knowledge, but their readiness to learn, accept the truth, and the change towards a better self within the limits of its ability, making them easy to be touched with the verses.

Talk about their very real dance, but I find myself still very much the situation than they were and who my friends tell me in the beginning. Not worth it feels to write at length, while the self is still questionable. Therefore, I am both ends meet here. May Allah make us go in a group of people cautious, a good religion. Allahuma amin

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